“That Friend” – Shelly
I feel like all us parents of special need kiddos have that one person who is our main go-to. Who we all wonder why the heck they choose to be involved in our lives but are so extremely happy they stay. This post is going to be a little different because I’m pretty much just going to shout out to our friend. But I feel like you guys will relate because I know you guys have this Friend in your life too…Thanks for being my friend anyway.
I know there are days that being my friend sucks. I’m either constantly worrying over my child’s delays, or complaining about my frustrations. I know I use up a lot of our time talking about Lilah, her therapy, our doctor visits, and equipment we are or will be using. Thanks for always listening though, I hope you know how much we love you.
Thank you for letting me enjoy your child. Most people are afraid to include me on their kids’ milestones, but I have been so excited seeing Emma grow and develop! I feel like maybe you held back a little with the walking milestone… but I also think maybe you knew it was the big milestone that hurt my heart the most to see Lilah get further and further from reaching. Please know Tyler & I were so very excited for Emma when she started walking, we love watching this tiny human toddle around our lives. Thank you for letting her.
Thanks for enjoying my child. I know it’s not the easiest. You have had to watch my child fight a lot of battles, and will probably watch her fight a few more. I know it’s not easy watching her work so much harder than most to accomplish a goal, but man, isn’t that a great feeling when she hits it?! I know you truly celebrate right along with us! Just today I sent you a picture of her standing by herself, and you were one of the only to notice how big a deal that was! We love including you in her life, and we know she definitely loves you!
I know being the friend of a special needs child can be the worst and the best at times. Just like I know how you kinda cringe inside when I call her special needs. I’m sorry for all the emotional roller coasters you have had to ride with me. I’m sorry for any time I snap about something my kid can’t do. I’m sorry if I ever make it feel like sticking around is a burden. I promise you won’t be sorry for sticking with us. One day I’ll show up at your house and Lilah will go running into your arms for a hug, and I swear that will be worth the ride.
What I guess I’m saying is… sorry our life is so messy, but thanks for being our friend anyway. We will cherish you until the end of eternity.