“A Day in the Life” -Amy

21Aug 2019

A phrase I hear quite often is, “I don’t know how you do it.” I don’t always know the correct response, so I usually just smile and take it as the compliment I think they intend it to be. I am not sure what they are seeing from their perspective. Are they seeing Jacob throwing himself to the ground in a temper tantrum? Are they seeing him frustrated when he can’t communicate his needs? Are they seeing me as a frustrated mom trying to do my best with the situation? Are they seeing him as a happy child? I see all of these things.  Continue reading

07Aug 2019

My fourth Ironman is in the books. Lake Placid, New York is a beautiful place and the trip was amazing. Beth and I chose this location because not only could I participate in the Ironman event, but we were celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary and the venue did not disappoint! We won’t soon forget our time there. Continue reading

15Jul 2019

Hello again, friends! I know it has been a while since I have updated everyone on what’s going on in our daily lives. Well, I will be the first to say, things have been a bit hectic this summer, but the craziness is welcome and we love the way that our lives are evolving! Continue reading

10Jul 2019

The Association for Creatine Deficiencies is excited to partner with Coriell, a world leader in biobanking (the collection of biosamples for research purposes) to collect and store cells from patients with Cerebral Creatine Deficiency Syndromes. We need your help as a community to donate cell samples to enable research! Continue reading

07Jul 2019

I know I’m one of the lucky ones. We still have our son. There was a moment in time where I seriously considered giving up custody of my precious baby boy, my third child. Sam is 21. He has CTD and therefore, Autism, Epilepsy, Sensory Processing Disorder, food sensitivities, ah… you know the list. Continue reading

30Jun 2019

The Society for Inherited Metabolic Disorders (SIMD) holds a 3-day meeting every year to discuss and share ideas about metabolic disorders. This year, the meeting included a satellite session on Cerebral Creatine Deficiency Syndromes, hosted by the Association for Creatine Deficiencies. Our ACD team was represented by the irrepressible dynamic duo Heidi Wallis and Laura Trutoiu. Continue reading

09May 2019

When your child is different, there are a lot of worries. We worry about their health; their education; and their safety. But we also worry whether they’ll have something that most of us take for granted. A friend. A real, honest-to-goodness friend. Someone they can relate to, who likes to be in their company, and who will be there for them in good times and bad. Continue reading

26Mar 2019

Standing in front of my kitchen sink in the cold, blue, January dawn, I run the warm water to wipe off my son’s face before he heads off to high school. The washcloth steams visibly in the frigid morning air as I carefully wipe off Benny’s face, getting off any traces of breakfast or sleepy eyes. He turns 15 in a week. I realize that I have to reach up to wipe off his face. He’s now taller than I am. I’m struck by the poignancy of this moment. Continue reading

26Aug 2017

picture of ben smiling

I thought it would be beneficial to share a profile of our four, almost five, year old boy with Creatine Transporter Deficiency (CTD) named Ben, who presents without seizures. All our CTD kids are different, so this is by no means a profile of CTD, but rather, a profile of our kid with CTD. I hope this helps others searching for a diagnosis and provides awareness of what CTD means to a family like ours. Here is a day in the life of Ben.

Height and Weight
When he was born, Ben was around the same weight and height as his older brother had been. As time went on, he stayed towards the bottom of the growth curve, and even off it for a time. We had to work with professionals to review and adjust his food intake for about a year. Right now, Ben is still in the lower percentiles for height and weight. He tops the scale at 31 pounds and is about 40 inches. He’s little, and it makes him look younger than he is.

Mobility
Ben has always been behind on mobility. He didn’t walk until he was 2 ½ years old. He’s had slow progress, but progress none the less. He can still lose his balance from time to time, and has issues with climbing and jumping. He also can’t go up or down the stairs without holding onto something, though he can at least tackle one step down without assistance. We still have baby gates up, he sleeps in his crib, and uses a high chair so we can keep him safe.

Fine Motor
I need to feed Ben for the most part. He can do finger food on his own, and he’s gotten better with a fork and spoon, but I must help. If I serve him a food that is not on his short list of favorites, I must feed it to him. He can drink from a straw, bottle or cup. Ben cannot draw or write. He is only capable of scribbles. He has trouble with stacking, putting beads on a string, and isn’t great with puzzles, either. He must really concentrate at times to do fine motor tasks.

Speech
My little guy does not speak any words. He grunts in strings, which makes me think he knows he should be talking in sentences. He loves to take you to what he wants, or push you there. He goes to what he wants and points as well. He will scream and cry when he is hurt or unhappy, which happens if he knows he isn’t being understood. He also doesn’t nod yes or no or wave hi or goodbye. He will occasionally give a high five though!

Despite this, he does seem to have good comprehension when someone else talks to him. He can understand two part commands, and knows what to do if I say we’re going to do something or go somewhere. He understands speech, even if he can’t speak himself. We use the LAMP program, which is on the iPad and combines pictures that speak the words. He uses this in speech therapy and at school, but it is a slow process for him.

Social
Ben loves to interact with people, and always has. He has the sweetest smile and loveliest laugh. He will engage with perfect strangers by going up to them and smiling, and sometimes touching them. He does a lot of independent play, but when interacting with other kids he doesn’t understand how to play well. He does engage in some games. For instance, he loves to throw a ball to the dog or chase his brother (or be chased). He can absolutely have fun with others, it’s just different than other kids his age.

Self-Care
We are still in diapers for the foreseeable future. He’s shown interest in the potty, meaning he sees the rest of us do it all the time because he loves to come with us, turn on the lights, flush the toilet for us (mostly while we’re still on it), and then go through the routine of washing hands. The basics are there and he will sit on his little potty, but the connections in his brain aren’t there to do the act.

He can take off shoes and socks, and he can pull down his pants. He can zip up and down, but not start the zipper. He can’t do buttons or snaps. Bath time is fun for him, and he can mimic the steps, but I still need to do all the work. He understands the basics of brushing his teeth, but not at all thoroughly. He can brush his hair, but not well. Understanding is there, but not the movement.

Sleep
He has awesome sleep habits and always has. He will sleep all night without a problem and still takes 2-3 hour naps in the afternoon.

Learning (and school)
I honestly don’t know what we’d do without special needs preschool – seriously. It has changed him in a short period of time for the better, even if he is so far behind his peers. Ben loves the routine of school. He is capable of learning, but it is at his own pace. Every year I notice huge differences in how he interacts and behaves in school, however, there are simply things he cannot do and ways he cannot participate. He also has a teacher assistant in class specifically focused on helping him through tasks.

He’s also had physical, occupational, and speech therapies both privately and at school since he was 10 months old. They have helped immensely!

Temperament
Ben is the sweetest, most easy going little boy. He is generally happy and giggles frequently. He does not have behavioral issues. People really love him and find him very special. He has a lot of energy and is always into something. He is so curious and it’s hard to get him to sit still.

That’s our boy! While every day is a challenge in one way or another, I can say with certainty that I am grateful that Ben has always made progress even though it is slow. There was a time when I couldn’t imagine him ever walking, but he did. Right now, I
can’t imagine a time where he will ever talk, but he might. So, we power through and take it day by day.

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